Look what we woke up to Sunday morning:
The dogs and I had to go out and play in it, of course...
Apparently my dogs love the snow as much as I do. This is their first time seeing this much snow at once, and they were thrilled. They were also as reluctant as me to stay indoors, and as eager as me to keep going out to play in it, which - since they were enthusiastic about the idea, and it gave me an excuse to do so - we did on and off most of the day.
To my delight - since yes, I was delighted, even after a day playing in it - it snowed more in the afternoon, after a bit of the earlier stuff had melted, and we'd trampled a lot of it. So, since we caught it snowing this time (we'd been asleep when the earlier snow fell, so it was a nice surprise for me to wake up to) we got a bit of a video of the snow falling:
Later that same day it snowed some more...
So, of course, I took the dogs out to play in it yet again...
(OK, so I took them so I could go out there again myself, but whatever... They still got to go outside again, which they were happy about).
I know this isn't much to some of you, and it will likely all be gone before this goes live, but... We got around five inches in total in our area that day, with a lot of it (what hadn’t melted or frozen overnight) still on the ground the next day, which is a big snowfall here in Wales. It's rare to get more than an inch or so in one snowfall. It's been a great Winter for snow this year, and Winter's not even over yet!
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I’ve been mentioning Lilie’s happy wiggle dance since she was a tiny puppy, and trying to get a video of it for almost as long. But, no matter how hard we tried, we just couldn’t get it on video, even though it’s her regular form of greeting. Now though, with her almost four years old, I can finally show you it, since my Mam got a video for me when I took the dogs outside to greet her when she came to drop off a couple of things she’d picked up for me from Tescos that we didn’t get in our food box, and couldn’t get at the corner shop. So, though I’m afraid you’ll have to put up with an excited Logan getting in the way from time to time (he was pleased to see Nana too) here, at long last, is a clip of Lilie doing her happy wiggle dance:
As you can see, my dogs love visitors – especially Lilie. Even Logan is learning to be enthusiastic about people other than me and Kelly. Just wait until we stop being in lockdown so Mam and Dad’s visits don’t have to be restricted to them only seeing us briefly for essential errands*. Lilie’s going to be over-the-moon. LOL!
*We could technically have one of them visit more. However, to do that we’d have to prevent the other coming, and since both of them are doing different things to help us, we all agreed it made more sense for us to just restrict visits from both to short ones just while essential errands/tasks are dealt with, and keep other contact to phone calls.
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Though we still have plenty of things we actually need to get to sort things in the new house, when we learned that Build-A-Bear did a Grogu (Baby Yoda) plushy, I really wanted one, so Kelly told me to get myself one, and count it as paying myself back some of the money I should have been having presents from anyhow (in other words, the money I’d gotten for my birthday and Christmas, which I’d been prioritizing paying for moving and household costs out of, and not spending on myself like I was meant to). So, I got a Grogu plushy, and here he is:
He has a sound chip in each of his little paws. One plays the “Mandelorian” theme tune, and the other plays the various cute little baby sounds you hear him making throughout the show. I could have had him with just one or the other, or with neither, but I decided to splurge for the whole package. I mean, if I was paying out for the plushy – which was the bigger part of the cost – I might as well just pay an extra few £s for the sounds too, right?
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I also brought myself a teapot. It’s a little ceramic one that’s perfect for just a couple of cups of tea, so ideal for when it’s only me having some tea, which is the case more often than not even without lockdown making visitors few and far between. Anyway, here’s my new teapot:
Though I’m told it’s not easy to tell from the photo, it’s actually purple. Well, when I saw they had them in purple, I had to, didn’t I? I mean, purple has always been my favourite colour.
I had a teapot before – that one was purple too – which was bigger. But it was a bit big for me to be using on my own, and I gave it to someone a few years back. I’ve wanted to get a new one ever since, but wanted just a little one this time. Well, now I have one, and even managed to make it a purple one again.
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In the interests of practicing better self care, adding proper “me time” to my routine is something I’m working on making a priority this year. I even have a plan. In fact, I’ve got a list of some things I want to do every day, and a list for stuff I’d like to do at least once a week, which I’m setting days for. My plan is to do the daily things for at least a few minutes every day, and each of the weekly things for at least an hour each per week.
Every day I want to:
• Enjoy a quiet cup of tea while listening to some music
• Meditate
• Read
• Write
My weekly self care activities list though is:
• Have a bubble bath (scented candles optional)
• Have a movie/TV show night where I just curl up somewhere and watch a DVD or something on a streaming service
• Work on crafts (I even re-activated a craft box subscription service I used to get to encourage this... You may remember me mentioning the Makerly Crafts subscription box in the past?)
My tentative plan for the weekly thing is a bubble bath on Friday night, a Saturday movie night, and a Sunday afternoon crafting session. That way I get the whole weekend to recharge.
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I won’t be doing a review of this every month, but I figured I’d do a check-in this time, since I’m only now getting around to telling you about my plan. So, how did the first month – well, about four weeks - of doing this go?
I’ve been managing to sit and relax while listening to music
for at least a few minutes each day, even if sometimes it’s with a cold drink
rather than a cup of tea. The point is
the quiet time just relaxing while listening to the music though, so I’m not
complaining. I've listened to a variety of music, including panpipes, country, 80s, 90s, and classical. I tend to do this in the morning, when the dogs aren't quite ready to start racing around and cause chaos, Artemis hasn't yet crawled out of her bed, and Mollie is sleepily waiting to see what I'll be offering her for breakfast before she goes for her daytime sleep. It's a nice relaxing way to start my day.
I’ve also generally managed to get at least a small amount of reading time in each day, even if some days it’s only been maybe 20 minutes or so. And I managed to read five books in January, even with two of them being long-ish books, and mostly doing shorter reading sessions.
I’ve had less success with the meditation and writing. I’ve done some writing since the start of the year, but not as much as I’d hoped, and definitely not every day. We won’t talk about the meditation part. Yes, I did that badly with it. With the writing it was a conscious choice, since I chose to use my writing time to work on unpacking boxes, but the meditation thing just didn’t end up happening... I'll make it a habit again eventually.
Also, despite having resubscribed to the Makerly Crafts box again,
and gotten my first kit since doing so (January’s kit was a Valentine's themed cardmaking kit, if you're wondering) I’ve not done
anything worth mentioning in the way of crafting yet either, since that’s
another time slot I gave up to unpacking boxes.
In this case it was essential I did so though, since I needed to unpack
and organize the craft supplies I owned, as well as ones I inherited from my
Nan (the one who died last August) – which my Dad has slowly been dropping off here for me whenever he’s been
here to do an essential errand – as well as make a space to work, before any
crafting could actually happen.
Plus, my relaxing bath nights have been a bit hit and miss, and the couple of baths I have had didn’t include scented candles, even if they were still relaxing. Baths are on my self care list because I mostly just have a shower, but a nice relaxing bath is something I enjoy having sometimes. However, it’s a bit more special if I don’t have one all the time anyhow, so I don’t mind if this one doesn’t happen every week. I mean, I kind of would like it to happen every week, since it would be a nice way to kick off my weekend. But I’d still call this one a success even if I only did it once a month.
I’ve had better luck with TV show/movie nights. I watched more episodes of “The Simpsons” as well as a couple of movies. The movies were the live action version of “Mulan” as well as “Soul” – both movies were on Disney+. “Mulan” was really good – very different to the animated version I’m familiar with, but still good, even if I did enjoy the animated one more. “Soul” was fantastic though... An absolutely wonderful movie with a lovely message. I’d give “Mulan” four out of five stars, and “Soul” five out of five stars.
All in all, I don’t think the first month went too badly, especially since I was making unpacking and organizing stuff the main priority intentionally, and we actually have most of that done now, with mainly just stuff we need to buy extra shelves or other storage solutions for still in boxes at this point. Although, more organization will need to happen with the craft supplies, especially with Dad still slowly dropping off more. But at least I can now make use of the craft room and supplies when I want to, as well as claim back my writing time.
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And there are so many supplies!
Nan was a big crafter, who dabbled in a lot of different crafts, and kept anything potentially useful for future craft projects, and I'm inheriting the lot, some of the tools for which she's had longer than I've been alive. Dad’s dropped off a load, and there’s still loads at his place yet to come over here (since he has to do it in bits, since he can only drop stuff off when he’s coming this way for other reasons, because of needing to restrict his visits due to lockdown, plus there really is a LOT of stuff).
There are supplies for crafts I do a lot already, like sewing. Supplies for crafts I’ve tried in the past and want to do more of, like quilling. Supplies for crafts I haven’t done since I lost my sight, but would kind of like to try again to see if I can do them – despite my initial reaction on thinking about it being that it would be impossible – like cross stitching. Supplies for things I’d like to get back in to that I haven’t done much of for a while, like cardmaking. Supplies for things I’ve never learned to do, but wouldn’t mind learning, like crochet. And supplies for things Nan was going to teach me, but we never got around to more than a first lesson I don’t remember very well, like tatting. Let's just say my craft room will be very well stocked by the time it all makes it over here. Oh, I’m going to have so much crafty fun!
I just have to decide what to play with first...

6 comments:
I'm glad you got snow. I know you love it. :-) I'd say five inches is a lot! It is fun to see dogs play in the snow when they love it so much. Emma was like me, and never a big fan of it, but Duke LOVES it.
The eastern part of NC got snow yesterday, and we got the crazy wind. It's been a strange winter already.
I love your purple teapot! It's so cute! Have you tried Twinnings Earl Grey with lavender? It's awesome. And it would be cute to have lavender tea in your purple teapot.
My sister is a huge fan of Baby Yoda, so I may need to look into that for her birthday or Christmas.
Danielle:
Thanks about the snow. Hope things don't get too nasty as regards your weather.
Glad you like my teapot. That's one of the flavours of theirs I haven't tried, but I definitely need to look in to that, especially since I agree it would be cool to have lavender tea in my purple teapot.
If your sister's a fan of Baby Yoda, she'd love the Grogu plushy. I know it's available in Build-A-Bear worldwide, since the person who told me about it is in America and I'm in the UK, so you should be able to find it easily enough.
I love this post, Tori. You sound so happy and it seems like you've made great strides since the move in settling and all is going well. I love your plan to "take care of me" -- it's really so smart and you have some wonderful goals here.
I think -- no, I know -- that you have more snow that we do. I'm glad you like it and hope it sticks around awhile for you. I'd send you some if I could, although to day is sunny and it's very pretty out there. The dogs look like they are having such fun too!
I'm a big fan of small teapot, too. And thinking of tea, I think I need to make some right now!
Jeanie:
Yes, we're settling in nicely, and I'm doing a lot better between the combination of being in a less stressful situation and doing a better job of self care.
I wish you could send me some of your snow. It turned to rain and started becoming slushy stuff, and now we just have rain and memories of snow, like I suspected would be the case by the time my post went live. There's more predicted for parts of the UK in the coming week, but I don't knowif we're included in that prediction. I hope so. Although, at least if we don't get any more this year I can honestly say we had a couple of good - in fact, one very good - snowfalls. I wouldn't say no to more though, of course. ;)
Hope you got that tea you planned on making.
Oh the snow! The snow! I know you are excite4d for all that snow and the dogs loved it, too. Nice!
I think you have to give yourself a break until you are unpacked on your lists. Unpacking will be a priority for a while. So wonderful that you are getting all your Nan's crafting supplies! Wow! Yes, unpacking all of that and getting the craft room in order would be high on the priority list. Because then you can relax and play and meditate and all the rest knowing things are in order. Like you said--you need to organize the craft stuff before you can use everything.
Baby Yoda looks cute. I haven't seen the show with Baby Yoda yet but I hear he's charming and sweet. I LOVE the fact you found a purple small teapot! And yes--it looked purple on my laptop screen.
I think it is a great idea that you get to see both sides of the family a little than not see one side at all. Makes more sense, too, as they help you with different things. Must be so wonderful to be back with family again! Have a great weekend--an a relaxing one. ;)
Rita:
Definitely excited for the snow, especially with how much of it we got. Plus, I'm lucky enough to have dogs who love it as much as I do. ;)
Don't worry, I am giving myself a break on my lists right now knowing I have all the stuff to organize. That's why I'm pleased with how the first month went: I lost a lot of my "me time" to organizing stuff, but it will be worth it in the end when I get to play with it all. To be honest though, despite the fact I want to do all the things on my lists as frequently as I said, I'm trying to remember that it's OK if I can't do it all. The whole point is to make sure I have regular me time, not to give myself something else to stress over after all. Though from a managing anxiety point of view I really need to get the meditating happening daily, even if the writing doesn't, since it really helps.
Baby Yoda is the best thing about the Mandelorianshow in my opinion, so I had to have a plushy of him. Oh, and I'm glad the teapot looks purple on your screen.
Yes, it's nice to be near family again. Also, I feel lucky to be able to see some of my family, even if only for a few moments at a time. I know a lot of people aren't so fortunate.
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