Showing posts with label Hygge. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hygge. Show all posts

Friday, January 12, 2024

Looking Back At 2023 And Ahead To 2024

Belated Happy New Year!


It’s that time of year, when people are reflecting on the past year, and looking ahead to the new one.

 

Last year was a tough year.  I lost my Mam in August, and found out two months later I’m dealing with liver failure myself now.  Not any easy thing to hear, especially after having watched your Mother go through it.

 

And the coming year will be dealing with whatever happens regarding my health.

 

Still, I’m trying to find those hygge moments where I can; I’m trying to find the joy in those little moments.  Despite pain, exhaustion, and general poor health.  And I’ll keep trying to embrace those hygge moments.

 

 

One way I’ve been doing this is with reading.

 

I’ve not been reading as much as is normal to me.  And – despite having been far ahead with it at one point – didn’t make my reading challenge goal.  But I did read several books, and enjoyed most of them a lot, which is the most important thing.  To see what I read this year, go to https://www.goodreads.com/user/year_in_books/2023/9194956

 

 This year I'm setting a very low goal of just 12 books.  Because it would feel wrong not to set a Goodreads reading challenge goal, but I don't want to try and push myself too hard. 

 

How was your 2023? And do you have any goals for 2024? Or, perhaps, a word for the  year?

Friday, January 06, 2023

Looking Back At 2022 & Ahead To 2023


 

~Above photo shows Logan the Cavapoo on the back of the sofa, and was taken on December 30th 2022.

 

I know we're already almost a week in to January, but I wanted to post about my holiday celebrations first.  Now though, it's time to take a look back at 2022, and start thinking about the coming year.


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I kept my goal list for 2022 practically non-existent.  Other than my plan to read 52 books as part of the Goodreads reading challenge, my plan for 2022 was to see where the year took me, and enjoy as many hygge moments throughout the year as possible; hygge being my word for 2022.


So, how did that work out?? 


2022 was an eventful year, and I never could have predicted how it turned out.  I think though, other than us losing the last of the rodent gang, Mollie the chinchilla, during the first half of the year (in April, to be exact) and some rough times healthwise (in particular dental disasters with infections that had me with mouth pain for a couple of months) it was a pretty good year.  I mean, there were definitely some rather stressful parts of it I'd like to forget, but there was enough of the good to stop me dwelling on those things, and to make me feel like 2022 wasn't too bad of a year.  Certainly not one of the best I've had, but most definitely not one of the worst either.


Unfortunately, though my website is now more up to date, writing took a bit of a backseat, with my only publications for this year being the "Poetry Treasures" and "Stand Together" anthologies I was involved with.  And I have yet to finish getting "Pawfect Pet Poems" and "Jelena" made available in audio (though both are listed on ACX in various stages of production).  I've been slowly working on writing things I plan to publish in the future, but writing sessions have been few and far between, and none of my works in progress ended up being finished in 2022, let alone published.  I'd hoped to have at least published one of them at some point during 2022, but I won't publish anything until it's ready and, as it stands at the moment, nothing new is even finished being written, let alone ready for publication.


However, that doesn't mean I didn't have a busy year.

 

I started getting involved with ACB (American Council of the Blind) Zoom calls in 2021, but ended up more involved than I ever could have imagined even wanting to be.  I'm now a trained Zoom host and Clubhouse moderator, and do both things regularly for ACB calls.  I've hosted for conventions and community-a-thons, helped teach skills with cooking and crafting, and am finishing up the year not only as an active participant and host, but also an ACB member at large, as well as a member of the ACB Crafters admin team, and part of the ACB Presents The Daily Schedule morning crew.  Not to mention, I've gotten to know some people through my work with the ACB who I now consider good friends.  I'm not a big fan of socializing usually, but apparently my reluctance to socialize doesn't extend to people who live inside my computer and phone.


Did I embrace my word of "Hygge" in 2022?Well, there were definitely times when I did.  Times when I put self care first, enjoyed a hygge moment by myself, with the petkids, or even with another person.  But I feel like I didn't embrace the concept as fully as I planned to.  I feel like I could have done more to make 2022 a hygge year for me.  Maybe I'd feel like that no matter how many hygge moments I enjoyed? Maybe I really could have done more? Who knows.  Either way, I feel like I was only partially successful in embracing my word for the year.  But a partial success is still a success, right? And I'll take what I can get when it comes to successes.


As for my reading goal: it was a slow reading year for me, but I did manage to read 52 books in 2022.  If you want to see what I read, you can see my year in books here.  Yes, it does take you to Goodreads, but you don't have to be a member to check it out.  It's just the easiest way for me to share all the information about what I read, which books I enjoyed and which I didn't, etc, since I record those things on Goodreads throughout the year when it's fresher in my mind.  So, for those who want to know what I read, and what I thought of those books, please check out that link to my year in books.


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Now it's the start of another year.  We're starting 2023, and most people are setting goals and resolutions.  Or maybe picking words for the year.  But after some serious thought, I decided I didn't want to be among them.

 

So, that's why, other than setting my reading goal on Goodreads to 52 books again, I’m not making any any goals or plans for the coming year.  I’m not even picking a word for 2023.  There were some goals and words I considered, and there are some things I hope will happen in 2023.  But I ultimately decided I’m just going to forget about trying to make goals I may or may not be able to achieve, not worry about deciding on which of the words is right for me, and just see where the year takes me.

 

It just feels like the right way forward for me.

 

If you want to see where 2023 takes me, make sure you check back here each Friday for my weekly blog posts.

 

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How about you? How was your 2022? Did you have any goals or resolutions? Did you have a word for the year? Do you have any of those things for 2023? Whatever the case, I'd love to hear about it in the comments, so please share.

Friday, October 14, 2022

My 2022 #SeptemberSmallThings Complete List - #Hygge & #Mindfulness

Last year Jo over at "How To Hygge The British Way" did a thing on her blog throughout September where she shared a small thing that gave her pleasure, she was grateful for, or she appreciated in a moment of mindfulness, each day, and I joined in because I thought it was an excellent idea.  So, when I saw she was doing it again this year, I decided to do it along with her again.  I've been posting the thing for each day on my Twitter account, but thought I'd do a round-up post here, both to gather them all together in one place and for the benefit of those not on Twitter.  Yeah, I know it's already basically the middle of October, but today is my first free Friday after September was completely over.  Anyway, what follows is my September small things list, as posted to Twitter throughout the month of September, reproduced here exactly as they appeared over there.


 

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 1: accessible books.

I finally got a Bookshare account sorted out yesterday, and am already loving having access to a whole load of titles I otherwise may not have been able to find copies of in an accessible to me format.

 

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 2: nap time.
Never underestimate a good nap! Especially if you’re someone like me who does not sleep well.
 

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 3: rain.

I love the sound of rain, and it’s even more welcome after a hot and mostly dry Summer.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 4: quiet time.
Everyone needs a bit of quiet time now and then.

 

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 5: a nice cuppa.
I love my tea, and today I'm trying - and loving - one of the teas that came in this month's box from Bird & Blend Tea Co. It's called "Butter Brew" and tastes like butterscotch.
 
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 6: tortoise playtime.
Spending time with Artemis is always a very hygge experience, and a great way to pause and relax briefly on an otherwise busy and chaotic day.
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 7: thunderstorms.
We had an excellent storm here today, and I enjoyed listening to it. I find storms soothing to listen to, and they've been promising me this one for days. It came at a time when my soul needed to be soothed too.
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 8: Free To Be Me.
The "Free To Be Me" call I do with Patty @bubbalee04 via the ACB Community is a fun way to spend part of my Thursdays each week.
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 9: puppy snuggles.
I love snuggle time with our dogs. And they seem to love it too.
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 10: tasty treats.

I treated myself to some vegan-friendly snacks and treats, and they arrived today.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 11: community karaoke.
ACB’s Weekly Community karaoke session happens early hours of Sunday morning for me, and it’s one of my favourite times of the week.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 12: a feeling of accomplishment.

I managed to check a lot of things off my to-do list today.  And It felt good.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 13: Herbie’s cooking corner.
I love cooking and baking, and doing it alongside a friend like Herbie @herbie_610 makes it even more enjoyable.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 14: community connect.
The call Kolby @kolbysongbird does on a Wednesday via the ACB community is always enjoyable. It’s something I look forward to every week.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 15: delight in others’ accomplishments.
It’s a wonderful feeling to see somebody making progress with a skill they want to learn, and to delight in knowing you were part of helping them achieve the progress they are so proud of making in learning it.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 16: quality time with loved ones.

Some days time with the person/people you love has to be your priority.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 17: helpful people.
There are times when people make that extra effort to make things easier for disabled people like me. Today was a day when I saw two examples of this kind of thing. Thank you @taralazar and @asda
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 18: singing just for fun.
Sometimes it’s fun to just sing whatever song you feel inspired to sing at that moment.
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 19: a nice chat with friends.
Whether online or offline (whichever you feel more comfortable doing) it’s nice to have people you can spend time enjoying a cosy chat with.
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 20: a successful baking experiment.
I had the challenge of making a dessert that mostly consists of dairy vegan for the cooking corner today, and am very happy with the results.
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 21: a message from a friend.

It’s always nice when a friend takes a moment or two to reach out and send you a message, and – though I always appreciate them - some days I’m especially grateful for those messages.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 22: the Autumn equinox.

We’re now officially starting the half of the year I love most, so bring on the cooler weather!

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 23: a relaxing bubble bath.

It’s rare I get the time for a nice relaxing bubble bath, so when I do – like I did today - it makes it even more special.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 24: touching stories.
I’m listening to the 10,000 call celebration for the #ACB Community, and it’s so nice how the community has touched so many lives with the calls that are held every day. Hearing them makes me incredibly glad to be a part of it all.
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 25: a warm blanket on a chilly evening.

I love snugly blankets! I’m a firm believer that you can never have too many blankets, and should have a choice as to which one – or ones – you’re going to snuggle in on a chilly evening.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 26: being there for a friend.

It’s a wonderful feeling when friends are there for you, of course.  But sometimes you need to be the one who’s there for them, and that’s a wonderful feeling too.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 27: creative fun.
Today was a day of creativity. First cooking a new to me recipe on the cooking corner, and then crafting with my Dad, with the day going to be ending with a crochet class.
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 28: unicorn slippers.
If I’m going to have something on my feet because it’s a cold day, it should be something fun, right?
  
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#SeptemberSmallThings day 29: take-away.

Most days I’m happy to cook.  But some days – especially when it’s a very busy day – I’m grateful for the option to have someone else do the cooking for me.  Today was one of those days.

  

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#SeptemberSmallThings day 30: making plans.
Today I am making plans and looking to the future regarding various calls and projects I’m involved with or working on. Seems like a good way to wrap up September and start heading into the last quarter of 2022.