Tuesday, February 05, 2019

Touching Scenes With #Degus And #Chinchillas, Hoovers, Weather Reports, And Preparing For Hospital

Once Lilie settles for the evening, it's so quiet here now Maizie's gone. Maizie was always so full of energy. I used to hear her half running, half hopping, so enthusiastically on her wheel she'd make their cage rattle. Or she'd be playing with their bell. Not to mention her jumping and climbing about energetically. I miss hearing all the sounds from her playing coming from the living room. I can still hear Joshua and Mollie, of course. But Joshua doesn't make as much noise as Maizie, and Mollie's even quieter still. Actually, Mollie has always been quieter and more reserved. Even at her most playful, she's never made even half the noise Maizie did. Maizie was also the one who used to throw things out of the cage at Lilie, and - strange as it might sound - I think Lilie is actually missing that. So we're all missing Maizie. Though Mollie most of all, I expect, since they've been cage mates since Mollie was six months old, and Maizie was three months old. That's almost three years of never being out of sight of one another.

At least Joshua helped Mollie deal with losing Maizie. Yes, really. Nobody will convince me otherwise. Mollie had been calling for Maizie, and generally seeming miserable - understandably. Then I heard Joshua squeaking away in the way he used to with his brothers. We've heard him talk to himself a bit, but never for this long. I didn't interupt though, because he didn't sound distressed. I'm glad I didn't, because it turned out he was on top of his house, in the spot where he could see Mollie in her log house best, and just a squeaking and chittering away to her. He was at it for a good five minutes, and then he scampered off to play on his wheel. Before that, Mollie was calling for Maizie, and only coming out of her log house to eat and drink. Since then Mollie has stopped calling for Maizie, and has even been playing some (as mentioned above, she was never as enthusiastic about playing as Maizie, so a little playing counts for a lot with Mollie). She even watched some TV with us. I don't care what anyone says. Our little degu buddy helped his chinchilla sister. I don't know what he said to her, but I'm glad he did, whatever it was. I mean, she's obviously still missing Maizie, of course. She probably always will. But whatever Joshua said to her seems to have helped, and kept her from spiraling down in to depression. So, Thanks Buddy!

In other news...

There was a marching band outside here on Saturday. I don't know why, and don't have photos or videos to share, but I did enjoy listening to them.

Anyway, we got a new hoover (vaccume cleaner). Our old one was a cheap one that needed bags, which we got because it was all we could get at the price we could afford at the time. Bearing in mind, this was several years ago. We've been meaning to replace it for a while, especially since it started being a bit unreliable as to whether or not it would suck things up a little while ago. Not to mention, getting hold of the right kinds of bags for it was getting to be quite difficult. Plus, we wanted a bagless one in general: les expense, and less waste. So, we finally got a new one. It's a Dyson, and even comes with an extra atatchment for the hose that's especially designed for picking up pet hair and such. Plus, though it's mostly grey, it has some red and purple on it, which I thought was great. Kelly usually does the hoovering, but I got all excited about it having some red and purple on it, so begged to be allowed to try it out first. Probably one of the few times in the history of the universe that anyone has ever been excited about doing the hoovering. Haha! I suppose I don't need to tell you he was happy to let me do so? Yeah... Thought as much. You also probably won't be the least bit surprised to learn the novelty wore off quickly, and I handed the task of hoovering back to Kelly, will you? That's what I thought! *wink*

Also, sticking on the theme of things around the house for a moment: we had the annual check for our boiler and heating system last week. The guy seemed happy with it, and we haven't noticed any problems with it. So, in theory we're good to go for another year, barring any unforseen circumstances. Oh, and we made sure it went back on the right setting afterwards this time, so we didn't end up with the problem we had last year, where we thought it was broken, and had to call someone out, only to find it was just on the wrong setting, and we hadn't realized that. So, we're all good as regards heating and hot water. Just as well really, since it's been pretty cold here. Although, quite warm compared to temperatures many of you have been having. Temperatures you can keep, by the way. -3 degrees C is quite cold enough to be getting on with, thank you very much!

If you're offering it, I'll take your snow though. It did sort of snow here Thursday night in to Friday morning. It tried to anyhow. A lot of the UK got snow, and places not far from us even had a couple of inches. But it turned to rain too quickly here - probably because of the salty sea air - to avoid being slush for long enough for Kelly to even get photos, let alone for me and Lilie to go down and play in it. They do keep saying we might get more snow before long. It's certainly stayed cold enough. We haven't had any more so far though. We've had a couple of awesome rainstorms, but no more snow. You watch it come this weekend, when I'll be stuck in hospital, and unable to go out and play in it. I really hope it doesn't do that.

Yes... It's almost time. It's just two days until I go in for surgery. I'll be having surgery Thursday afternoon. All prayers and positive thoughts gratefully received. I hopefully won't need them, but it doesn't hurt. Thanks in advance!

Anyway, tomorrow I get to find out just how bad that special before surgery drink stuff tastes. They didn't have that last time I went in for surgery, so I've never had it before. I hope it's not as bad as I'm dreading it will be. Hopefully my dread of the terrible flavour will mean I get a nice surprise when it's not as bad as I fear it will be. Can but hope, right? *wink*

Speaking of things not being as bad as I feared: my ankle is doing well. I'm still getting nasty twinges of pain in it more than is normal for it, but I've either done a great job of resting it, or didn't hurt it as badly as it felt like I had. Either way, it's mending nicely. At least, as nicely as is possible for that ankle. I'm sure it will be glad of the proper rest while I'm in hospital though. Not that hospital is generally a relaxing place, as those who have spent a lot of time there know. But at least I won't be needing to walk around much.

Anyway, I'll be offline from early Thursday morning through to whenever I'm up for sitting at the computer after I'm home. Can't say exactly how long that will be, since how quickly I get to come home depends on how smoothly surgery and initial recovery goes. I've got posts set up for all the weekdays of the next two weeks, which should be long enough to give you plenty to read while I'm gone. I hope. Those who usually get to my posts via Twitter or Facebook will have to either come to my blog looking for them, or wait until I'm around to share them, since the only online activity there might be from me during that time is if I feel like checking in briefly on Facebook to let people on there know I'm alive, and that's if I even feel up to doing that, which there's a good chance I won't. If you're worried you'll miss a post, you can always subscribe by eMail... There's a thingy for that somewhere on my sidebar. Anyway, I hope you enjoy the posts I've got set up for you, and that I'm not gone too long.

I'll catch up with all your posts and things when I can after I'm home, though I expect that will take some time, since - if my usual list of posts and eMails is anything to go by - I'm sure I'll have quite a stack of stuff waiting for me to deal with.

Before I end this, here's another random photo of Lilie... Just because:

Monday, February 04, 2019

#MondayMotivation, #Inspiration, And #Wisdom - #Quotes About #Love For February 4th 2019 - #ValentinesDay

Some quotes about love, since it's Valentine's Day next week.

Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.
~Anatole France

Do not be dismayed by the brokenness of the world. All things break. And all things can be mended. Not with time, as they say, but with intention. So go. Love intentionally, extravagantly, unconditionally. The broken world waits in darkness for the light that is you.
~L.R. Knost

It doesn't matter who you are or what you look like, so long as somebody loves you.
~Roald Dahl

If you seek peace, be still.
If you seek wisdom, be silent.
If you seek love, be yourself.
~Becca Lee

The love between humans is the thing that nails us to this earth.
~Ann Patchett

We’ve got the gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can’t just accept it and leave it in the cupboard, or just think it’s gonna get on with itself. You gotta keep watering it. You’ve got to really look after it...and nurture it.
~John Lennon

In dreams and in love, there are no impossibilities.
~János Arnay

The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
~Unknown

Saturday, February 02, 2019

R.I.P. Maizie

Today shouldn't really be a posting day, but I think the title makes it clear I have some important news to share, and what that news is. So I'm sure you'll understand the reason for an un-planned posting day.

On Thursday afternoon, our youngest chinchilla, Maizie, started seeming unwell. She'd been more cuddly recently, but otherwise seemed fine. I did think the cuddly behaviour was odd, but put it down to her having recently turned three. Mollie didn't change her behaviour on turning three, but the degus all mellowed out some when they turned three, including Joshua, who's almost six now. So, the possibility it was more than that didn't occur to me. In fact, I posted on Facebook only that morning how she was being extra cuddly and sweet, and how I hoped she kept wanting cuddles. However, by late afternoon, we realized there was something wrong, and our little girl needed a vet.

Though we spoke to the vets on the phone right away, we couldn't get her to a vet until Friday morning, partially because our own exotic vet had left the practice, so we had to find a new one on the spot. By the time we'd spoken to a couple of vets, and were able to get her seen, it was too late to do anything more than stop her suffering. Those of you who have owned small animals will know how they are for hiding that they aren't well until the last possible moment. Well, I guess that's what Maizie did.

Mollie is fine, by the way. Upset at being unable to locate her friend, of course. But otherwise fine. Let's hope she stays that way for a long time yet. Like Maizie, she only recently turned three. Although, in Mollie's case it was October she celebrated her third birthday, rather than just last month. Chinchillas can live a long time sometimes, assuming their health co-operates. Opinions differ as to exactly how long, though everyone gives numbers between 10 and 25 years, with most people saying about 15 years or so.

I'm sure you can imagine that it breaks my heart to lose Maizie so soon, though I'm glad it happened when it did, and not a week later, when I would have been in hospital. At least my being home still meant I could be with her at the end, and I could take her in to the vet myself, while Kelly stayed home with Lilie. He would have come too, but Lilie would have needed to come if Kelly did, and we didn't think it was fair on either of the girls to have us all go. Maizie more than anything, since Lilie adores vet trips so probably would have loved it, and it was Maizie's stress level we were really thinking of. Kelly going instead of me wasn't an option. We know rodents are tricky, and I wanted to be there with her if it was time to say, "Goodbye," and send her on that journey across the rainbow bridge. So I went on my own.

The vet practice was new to us. As I said, our usual one doesn't have an exotic pet vet at the moment, so we had to go elsewhere. They were great though... Both when it came to dealing with me, and - most importantly - with Maizie. So we've held on to their number in case we need them for Mollie (our remaining chinchilla) or Joshua (our remaining degu) at any point in the future. Mind you, it never hurts to have a second vet option for emergencies in general. As a rule though, we'll keep Lilie to her usual vet, since there's no reason to change her, what with her being a dog, and not an exotic pet. After all, the vets we'd been using are great too. Bearing in mind, we've been using our usual vet practice since we were using them for Kero when we first moved down here. That's close to seven and a half years ago now. Other than them suddenly not having an exotic vet, we've never had a problem with them in all that time, and the exotic pet vet thing isn't really a problem with them as such. A lot of vets don't train in exotic pets, and when they did have one who could deal with exotic pets, they were great with those too. Plus, when they realized we needed an exotic pet vet, they did give us a list of vets to try. Two of them were too far for us to get her to them, though one of them did try to help as much as was possible without seeing Maizie. One was extremely rude to me on the phone, and hung up on me, so they'd have to be the last vet option available for me to ever consider using them, since I'm not about to trust my furry babies to people who can't even be civil to other humans (our vet only gave us that number as an afterthought, in case we couldn't get her seen in the other three, since at least they do have an exotic pet vet there, and it was only their proximity to us that made us call them at all). The other vet our usual one told us to contact was the one we went to, and would willingly go to again, should we need to. Although, I'm hoping we won't need to any time soon, of course.

Anyway, I have some photos of Maizie, taken about a week ago, which I'd posted in the chinchillas' album on Facebook, but hadn't had a chance to post on here yet. So, I'm going to post them here.

Here she is perched on the edge of the sand bath:


Here she is coming out of the cage for a cuddle:


The chinchillas didn't chew on the purple bowl, but they kept tipping it over, and then getting upset because they didn't have any food. So, we got them a ceramic one. Here's Maizie trying it out:


"Do you mind? I'm eating!"


Rest in peace, Maizie Girl... We miss you already!

January 13th 2016 - February 1st 2019

Friday, February 01, 2019

Friends Of #FurkidFriday: Trigger

Hi everyone. This is Lilie the Westie.

When I heard Mummy was going to go for one of those hospital trips again, I thought I'd invite a couple of friends over while she'd be gone. Her being gone would mean it would be just me and Daddy for a while. Well, the squeaky things in cages would be here too, but they won't come out and play with me, so they don't count. I love my Daddy best usually, but he's not the best at playing ball, because he won't play for as long as Mummy does. Anyway, I figured asking some of my friends to come tell you about themselves would pass the time until Mummy can play ball with me properly again.

Except, there were lots of friends I wanted to invite over, and they were all happy to come for a visit. So this is going to be more than just something for while Mummy is going to the hospital place again. In fact, Mummy says we can do it after she's home too, if there are any writers' pets who want to come over for a visit. Although, because we'll need to be able to do our regular "Furkid Friday" posts some weeks too, there will only be one spot a month available as from March (February is already all filled up).

So, if you're a writer's pet - regardless of species - and you want to come over and talk to me, or one of the squeaky things in cages, you can get in touch with us, and we'll send you the questions you need to answer to do it. Send us an email to keroberous2004@gmail.com with the subject "Friends of Furkid Friday" (you have to do that bit, or Mummy might think it's junk and delete it by accident). Just be patient with Mummy while she deals with the hospital thing, because it's going to make her slow doing things on the computer.

Today though, I would like to introduce you to my friend, Trigger.

Hello Trigger. For the benifit of anyone who doesn't know you... What species and breed are you?

I am a brindle Labrador/retriever.

I haven't met many of those. Describe your appearance.

I am a large, brindle Labrador/retriever. My father was a black Labrador while my mother was a golden retriever, which accounts for my brindle colour. The brindle is present on my legs and tummy, while the rest of my body is black.

You sound like a nice looking dog. What sort of place do you live in? Who do you share it with?

I live in a 2-bedroom flat with a hall and a large living room. My bed is in the living room. There is a large garden and a park just 2 minutes walk from my home.
I share my home with Kevin Morris, a poet and author who is originally from the city of Liverpool but has lived and worked in London since 1994. Kevin is registered blind and I am his guide dog.

Sounds like a nice place. My Mummy is blind too, but I'm not her guide dog. What’s your favourite thing to do?

I enjoy going for walks especially in the park or woods where there are lots of interesting smells for me to investigate.

Oh, I love walks! Most of mine happen by the big water the humans call the ocean though. Do you have a favourite toy? If yes, what is it?

I have a squeaky bear which I love to squeak as it drives Kevin mad! Kevin once found a “squeaky dog toy sound” on something called Youtube, which really confused me as I spent ages trying to find that toy!

It would have confused me too! Also, your bear sounds like a great toy. What’s your favourite food?

I eat a complete dry food. However, I love to vacuum up tasty morsels on the street (although Kevin does his best to prevent me from doing this)!

That must be frustrating. I hope Kevin doesn't always manage to stop you... Humans drop some great stuff! Speaking of Kevin, what’s the one thing your human does that you love most?

That is a hard question to answer. I love it when Kevin scratches my belly or behind my ears, but my greatest love is (apart from eating) going for walks in the park and its almost always Kevin who takes me there.

Those things all sound really nice. What’s the one thing your human does that you hate most?

Sometimes he puts anti-flea spray on me and I shake vigorously to get it off me. I hate that flea spray!

I don't blame you! By the way, you mentioned that your human is a poet and author. Has he written anything about you? If yes, can you tell us about it? If no, do you think he will in the future?

Kevin has written several poems about me, including the below piece entitled “The Hungry Hound”:

“I am Trigger.
My stomach is bigger
Than you think.
Your lunch will be gone in the blink
Of an Eye.
Then away I fly.
Should you ask “who stole my lunch?” I reply
“Nnot I
But, dear reader, I lie …!..
I have been known to eat plastic.
My reach is elastic.
You think your food Safe?
My friend brace
Yourself for a shock
For I will gobble the lot!
Be it ever so hot!”.

Nice poem. Thanks for sharing it with us. So, what do you do while your human writes?

I sleep or (just for fun and to break his concentration) I come into his study, wagging my tail and push my cold wet nose against his hand. Sometimes I present him with one of my toys just as he is deep in thought!

Well, you have to make sure he takes breaks, don't you? It's not good for humans to stay sitting at their computers for too long without breaks, after all. Before we say goodbye, is there anything else you’d like people to know about you?

I think eating, walks in the woods and playing with my toys are far more interesting than poetry!

You and me both! Don't tell Mummy though... She writes poems too, and might get upset if she learns I'm really not interested when she reads them to me, but only pretending in hopes she'll give me a treat, or play ball with me for a long time, to reward me for being a good dog and listening.

***~~~***

Author bio, links, etc:
Kevin Morris was born in the city of Liverpool on 6 January 1969. Having lost the majority of his eyesight at 18-months-old, Kevin attended Wavertree School for the Blind and Saint Vincents School for the Blind, both of which are located in Liverpool.
Kevin went on to study history and politics at University College of Swansea. Being a glutton for punishment he stayed on at Swansea and completed a Master of Arts (MA) in political theory. In between his studies Kevin enjoyed sailing in Swansea’s Oyster Mouth Bay and falling in the water …!
Kevin moved to London in 1994 to live and work. His fulltime job is as a civil servant and in his free hours he writes poetry, which he began writing in 2011.
Being visually impaired Kevin uses Job Access with Speech (JAWS) software which converts text into speech and braille enabling him to use a standard Windows laptop/computer.

Author’s website - https://newauthoronline.com
Author’s Twitter - https://twitter.com/drewdog2060_
Author’s Goodreads – https://www.goodreads.com/newauthoronline

“The Writer’s Pen and Other Poems”, https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07GD1LBMV/, is A collection of 44 poems encompassing the passing of the years, nature, man's place in the world and politics. “The Writer’s Pen” is available in multiple formats at the above link and you can find “Summer”, one of the poems in the collection, reproduced below:

“Summer unlocks
Youthful passion.
Now ‘tis the fashion
For short frocks
And tiny socks.

Some girls barefoot go,
For of a summer’s day,
They little know
That Winter snow
Is on its way”.

***~~~***

I hope you enjoyed meeting Trigger, and getting to know about him and his human, Kevin.

Lots of licks,
Lilie

Thursday, January 31, 2019

#AmReading + #AmWatching - January 31st 2019 #Reviews

It's time to take a look at what I've been reading and watching during the past week.

If you want to know more about the book, or the author, click on whichever it is you want to learn more about, and it will take you to the appropriate page on Goodreads. Clicking on my rating should take you to my actual Goodreads review for the book in question. Please bear in mind that the format I've reviewed on Goodreads may not be the format I actually read.

Alternatively, if it's a movie or TV show you want to know more about, just click on the title to go to a page where you can find out more details about the movie or TV show in question; the title links will usually take you to a page on IMDB.

Don't forget: I read and watch things across multiple genres, as well as for different age ranges, so you should always check before reading or viewing, to make certain something is suitable for the intended audience, especially when children are involved.

OK...

Here's what I read this week:

Twenty Thousand Leagues Under the Sea (Extraordinary Voyages, #6)Twenty Thousand Leagues Under the Sea by Jules Verne
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
This was a great read; I can see why this is a classic. I thought it was a bit of a slow starter. However, once I got in to the book, I found it exciting and enthralling.

The Fairy Godmother (Five Hundred Kingdoms, #1)The Fairy Godmother by Mercedes Lackey
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
I officially give this book 3.5 stars, but I'm rounding up, because I always do. Anyway, this was a good read, though it wasn't amazing. The first chapter hooked me in nicely, though there were several chapters that dragged in the first half during the Fairy Godmother training. I mean, did we really need that many detailed chapters about it? Still, it picked back up after a while, especially once the prince showed up, and the ending was fantastic. The characters were interesting, and the worldbuilding was imaginative. A bit more editing might have been an idea though, in order to catch those places where things like poor word choice jarred you out of the story. So, as I said, a good read over all, but not an amazing one.

As for what I've been watching:

Apart from bits and pieces of movies and shows I caught in between doing other things, which don't count, I didn't watch any movies or TV shows again this week - new to me or otherwise. I used the free time I could have used to do so for writing - and a few other authorly tasks I wanted to get to - instead. Well, and catching up on some stuff people I follow on YouTube had posted, which I hadn't had a chance to watch before. No. I don't even feel the slightest bit guilty for it.

Wednesday, January 30, 2019

#WriterWednesday - January 30th 2019

Up until this past weekend, I'd only managed to write two poems all month. However, I was able to take advantage of a bit of free time this weekend to get a few hundred words written - some on a short poem, the rest on a story. It's not much, but it's better than I had been managing. I've not been making my writing the priority it should be lately, mainly because it's the thing most people seem to want me to let slide whenever I just can't do it all, so it's just easier to let it be the thing I don't get to. But also a little because I've been procrastinating. Mainly the former, but I'll admit I'm guilty of the latter sometimes too. I'm hoping, after I've had surgery and recovered from it, I can change that. I could have started trying now, but decided to let things remain as they are for the time being. I will fix things though, because I have to write, and I'm missing it.

Sticking with the theme of the above paragraph: this is why it's so hard to sit down and get your writing done. Also, procrastination is a self-perpetuating cycle, so if you're as guilty of it as I have been over the past couple of weeks, check out the tips in the post I just linked to. Maybe they can help you make your writing the priority it should be. After all, there are reasons why your writing matters - even if you aren't making any money from it. So, how do you keep the passion for writing going?

However you do it, here's a reminder to always write down your 'shower thoughts' and those random thoughts and ideas from other times and places too. After all, one of those ideas might have the potential to be something great one day, and it would be a shame if they were lost forever.

Struggling with writers' block? Here are some more tips for where to find ideas for writing a story. Just don't wait around for ideas.

Remember: when you have your list of ideas, or random thoughts and observations, you can always recycle them when you're ready to write your next story or poem. Or, if you're not sure which to work with, you can go on a speed date with your stories.

OK, let's assume you're managing to avoid procrastinating, have your ideas, know which you're ready to work with right now, and are writing away. With that being the case, you might want to think about how you can write large.

Do you have any geologists in your story? Then you might like to take a look at this guide to being a geologist, so you can make sure you're making your geologist character believable.

Are you writing flash fiction? Is it set in a world you created yourself? Then read this post for some tips on how to build a fantasy world in flash fiction.

Now you have a first draft, it's time to do some revising, and tackle those plot holes.

Rewrites and edits are important. However, you need to avoid getting up in that vicious cycle of rewrites and edits, where your book is never quite finished in your opinion, even if it really is. With that in mind, here are some signs you're afraid of finishing your manuscript.

So... Here's how to write better: a quick guide.

Finally, if you're a writer too, how's your writing going? If you're doing any kind of writing challenge - like STORYSTORM or the 85k90 Challenge, just to give two examples of writing challenges I know have been going on during January - how are you doing with it? I'd love to know, so tell me in the comments.

Tuesday, January 29, 2019

Weather Updates, Buzzers, Cards, #HarryPotter Boxes, And #Crafting

Still no sign of my snow. Plenty of wind and frost. A fair amount of rain too. But still no snow. Some places not too far from us - though a bit more inland - have had snow, but the closest we've had has been a thick frost. I'm keeping my fingers crossed my snow comes soon. Maybe it will come this week? I really hope so! They do say it might. But they've been saying that all month, so I'm not holding my breath. Hoping, and crossing my fingers, of course. But not holding my breath.

In other news...

The intercom buzzer thingy still isn't fixed. Turns out the repair guys hadn't even gotten around to asking the landlord and neighbour for access to the other apartment to be able to work on the buzzer issue. I only found out about the message not getting passed on when we were arranging for everyone to be around so someone could come to do an inspection to make sure the fire alarms are working. Kelly saw the downstairs neighbour, and he knew nothing about the situation, other than that the buzzers haven't worked properly since he was here. I spoke to the landlords when we were arranging for the fire alarm guy to come, and they were under the impression the buzzer had been fixed the day the guys were here. They actually asked me if the buzzer works fine now, and when I told them it didn't, seemed surprised. So I told them what the repair guys said. Hopefully, now the neighbour and the landlords are aware of the situation, the buzzer will finally get fixed. I think I'm going to have to send the landlords a message to tell them what the repair guys say in future. Maybe then things will actually get done.

Anyway...

I got a couple of late Christmas cards. One came nearly the middle of January, and the other came at the end of last week. One is from my Nan (Dad's Mother) and the other is from Deanna. Here they are:


I also got a thank you card from Rita, which I mentioned in an earlier post, but didn't get around to sorting a photo of until now. So, here it is:


Also, my January Harry Potter box arrived. I missed the December one because of a payment glitch we didn't notice in time (the money was there, but for some reason their attempt to take it failed... We were a day late fixing it). But my January box came right on time... I got it on the weekend. So, here's what was in the box this month:

A Hogwarts print t-shirt:


A Harry Potter themed cushion cover:


A pendant that's a frog - looking something like the frogs on the chocolate frog cards I have a collection of, so I'm calling it a chocolate frog - on a chain:


A wintery owl pin:


A little snowy owl figurine:


A "three brothers" movie print:


And some tea, which is made of apple, rosehips, and a few other fruity and herby things I don't remember (Kelly did read the packaging to me, and it is all natural ingredients, so I'm looking forward to trying it... Good thing I have one of those thingy's you can use for loose tea):


Not a bad haul, in my opinion. Apparently... According to a note that was in my box this month... Starting from next month, they'll be personalizing the boxes better, and they'll include more "handmade items" too. I like the sound of that. Not that I have any problem with the contents of the boxes I've received. But handmade and personalized sounds even nicer still.

Anyway, speaking of things I got in my subscription boxes...

Guess what? I finally finished the Autumn themed table runner kit I got in October's SewMine box. So, at long last, here's the finished table runner:


Here's a close-up of the edging of the leaves, so you can see it in more detail:


Please forgive any sloppyness in the stitching. I haven't done the kind of stitching needed to do the edging for the leaves since I was making my camp blanket when I first started Girl Guides. That was about 23 years ago, when I was about 11. So, I'm a bit out of practice with blanket stitch, and I personally think it shows in some cases. I did my best though, and feel good for finally being able to say it's done.

I haven't decided which of my kits I'll work on next.

By the way, for those who happen to be interested: My January Makerly box contained two kits. One was a kit to make a heart rag rug decoration, and the other was a cardmaking kit for a Valentine's Day card. I'm rather behind on making the kits, but never mind. I'll get to them when I get to them.

That's all I have to say today, since the only other things I've done during the past week involve my share of the household chores, caring for and playing with the furkids - especially Lilie, who loves regular games of fetch, and Maizie, who's been really cuddly during this past week - and all of those other things I do every day (like reading, sorting eMails, etc).

Before I end this though, here's a random photo of Lilie... Just because:

Monday, January 28, 2019

#MondayMotivation, #Inspiration, And #Wisdom - #Quotes For January 28th 2019

Do not let the memories of your past limit the potential of your future. There are no limits to what you can achieve on your journey through life, except in your mind.
~Roy T. Bennett

What we do today, right now, will have an accumulated effect on all our tomorrows.
~Alexandra Stoddard

We’re all called. If you’re here breathing, you have a contribution to make to our human community. The real work of your life is to figure out your function–your part in the whole–as soon as possible, and then get about the business of fulfilling it as only you can.
~Oprah Winfrey

The surest way to lose your self-worth is by trying to find it through the eyes of others.
~Becca Lee

Taking good care of YOU means the people in your life will receive the best of you rather than what is left of you.
~Lorraine Cohen

The great thing about getting older is that you don't lose all the other ages you've been.
~Madeleine L'Engle

The secret of getting ahead is starting. The secret of getting started is breaking your tasks into smaller manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one.
~Mark Twain

Friday, January 25, 2019

Friends Of #FurkidFriday: Frankie

Hi everyone. This is Lilie the Westie.

When I heard Mummy was going to go for one of those hospital trips again, I thought I'd invite a couple of friends over while she'd be gone. Except, there were lots of friends I wanted to invite over, and they were all happy to come for a visit. So I'm starting to introduce my friends early, and this is going to be more than just something for while Mummy is going to the hospital place again. In fact, Mummy says we can do it after she's home too, if there are any writers' pets who want to come over for a visit. Although, because we'll need to be able to do our regular "Furkid Friday" posts some weeks too, there will only be one spot a month available as from March, though February will be full of new friends for you to meet.

So, if you're a writer's pet - regardless of species - and you want to come over and talk to me, or one of the squeaky things in cages, you can get in touch with us, and we'll send you the questions you need to answer to do it. Send us an email to keroberous2004@gmail.com with the subject "Friends of Furkid Friday" (you have to do that bit, or Mummy might think it's junk and delete it by accident). Just be patient with Mummy while she deals with the hospital thing, because it's going to make her slow doing things on the computer, and probably off it too.

Back to today though, and the first friend I want to introduce you to is Frankie Boyack.

So, Frankie, for those who don't know you, what species and breed are you?

I'm a bulldog girl.

How nice. Describe your appearance. I've got a photo of you with your Dad to show people, but please describe yourself too, for the benefit of those who can’t see the photo.

I look a lot like my older brother in that we're brindle with white. I'm smaller than he is, and a bit darker too.

Dad calls me a monkey, because I like to climb all over the furniture. If anyone tells you bulldogs are lazy, it isn't true.

I'll bear that in mind. By the way, here's that photo of Frankie and her Dad I mentioned just now:


So, Frankie, what sort of place do you live in? Who do you share it with?

First, there's Mom and Dad. They feed me and give me lovin's. There's also my brother, Otto. He's the one who got me started on chasing squirrels out of the back yard.

I love to chase things too. It's birds I chase most though... Don't see many squirrels. Anyway, what’s your favourite thing to do?

I really like to play ball. It's so much fun to run after and chase. I like it when it bounces, and I have to slide on the hard floor.

Ohhh... I love balls! Speaking of toys, do you have a favourite toy? If yes, what is it?

Ball, of course. There have been others, but I tend to eat them. I had surgery last year because I swallowed something bad for me.

I'm sorry to hear that. Mummy and I remember reading about that on your Dad's blog. We're both really glad you're OK now. Yeah, best to stick with balls. Speaking of eating things though, what’s your favourite food?

Mom makes Sunday breakfast. Sometimes she breaks an egg, then gives them to Otto and I. I think she breaks a few on purpose, just so we can have some too.

Sounds great, and that's really nice of her to break some on purpose for you guys to have some too. Speaking of your humans, what’s the one thing your humans do that you love most?

I really like to play, but I like belly rubs too. I won't lay down for them, so I stand on the arm of the couch so they can reach.

Good idea standing up where they can reach you like that. Of course, we dogs never like everything our humans try to do with us. So, tell us, what’s the one thing your humans do that you hate most?

I don't like it when they go to work. Otto and I hang out, but there's nobody to throw the ball for me.

I can see why you wouldn't like that. By the way, I know your human is a writer. Has he written anything about you? If yes, can you tell us about it? If no, do you think he will in the future?

I don't know if he ever will, but I've been on his blog before. One of Dad's friends borrowed Otto and wrote him into a short story before. It was too scary for me though.

That's great that you've been on his blog at least. I hope someone writes a story about you soon, whether it's your Dad, or one of his friends. Speaking of writing, what do you do while your human writes?

Sometimes I like to cuddle with him, but sometimes I find one of my Nylabones, or watch for the squirrel.

Those all sound like great options. Cuddles with humans are great, aren't they? One last thing before we end this: is there anything else you’d like people to know about you?

Just that bulldogs are a lot of fun. We like to hang out and play hard too.

Good to know. Anyway, thanks for visiting today, Frankie. I'll let you get back to chasing those balls and squirrels.

***~~~***

Author bio, links, etc

I was born in a town called Elko, Nevada. I like to tell everyone I was born in a small town in the 1940s. I'm not quite that old, but Elko has always been a little behind the times. This gives me a unique perspective of earlier times, and other ways of getting by. Some of this bleeds through into my fiction.

I moved to Idaho right after the turn of the century, and never looked back. My writing career was born here, with access to other writers and critique groups I jumped in with both feet.

I like to write about things that have something unusual. My works are in the realm of science fiction, paranormal, and fantasy. The goal is to entertain you for a few hours. I hope you enjoy the ride.

Craig




Blurb:
An honorable man is mistaken for his disreputable father. Now he's pushed into a political scheme to start a war that will spread across multiple kingdoms. James Cuttler's fiancé is being held captive to ensure he goes through with the plan.

He soon decides his skills are at sea and procures a ship to wage war upon those who disrupted his simple life. He can't do it alone, so he recruits a band of cutthroats to help him. But first, they need guns and munitions to outfit the ship properly. Deception and trickery will only get them so far. Eventually, they're going to have to engage the enemy.

James' goals aren't necessarily the same as his crew. It's a delicate balancing act to collect enough loot to keep his crew happy, while guiding them back to rescue the girl.

Voyage of the Lanternfish is filled with adventure, magic, and monsters. Lots of monsters. Hoist the colors and come along for the ride.



***~~~***

I hope you enjoyed meeting Frankie, as well as her human, Craig.

Lots of licks,
Lilie

Thursday, January 24, 2019

#AmReading + #AmWatching - January 24th 2019 #Reviews

It's time to take a look at what I've been reading and watching during the past week.

If you want to know more about the book, or the author, click on whichever it is you want to learn more about, and it will take you to the appropriate page on Goodreads. Clicking on my rating should take you to my actual Goodreads review for the book in question. Please bear in mind that the format I've reviewed on Goodreads may not be the format I actually read.

Alternatively, if it's a movie or TV show you want to know more about, just click on the title to go to a page where you can find out more details about the movie or TV show in question; the title links will usually take you to a page on IMDB.

Don't forget: I read and watch things across multiple genres, as well as for different age ranges, so you should always check before reading or viewing, to make certain something is suitable for the intended audience, especially when children are involved.

OK...

Here's what I read this week:

Snake Face (Mae Martin Mysteries #3)Snake Face by Amber Foxx
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
This was an excellent addition to the series, and a fantastic book in its own right. It's well-written, and the character development is nicely done. The plot moves at a faster pace than in the previous two books, but this isn't a bad thing, since it makes it all the more difficult to put down. I look forward to reading the rest of the series, and likely would have started the next book as soon as I finished this one if I already had a copy of it.

Fairies, Myths, & Magic ~ A Summer CelebrationFairies, Myths, & Magic ~ A Summer Celebration by Colleen M. Chesebro
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
This is a delightful collection of stories and poems. Those who follow one of the paths where they already believe the Summer Solstice is a magical time will especially enjoy it, though it will appeal to anyone who enjoys stories of fairies, myths, and magic, regardless of age or path.

WolfWolf by Denise M. Main
My rating: 3 of 5 stars
I thought this book sounded like a great read. Werewolves, spiritual awakenings... Things I enjoy reading about. Well, those things were part of the book, and I did enjoy those aspects, as I'd anticipated I would. However, the fact the main character couldn't seem to speak without cursing was irritating, and I couldn't believe how naive she is - especially for someone who hasn't exactly been living a sheltered life. Not to mention, I was uncomfortable with the freedom of partner selection, and the fact it was explained away as being acceptable because shifter morals are different to most human's morals. It's a shame, because the plot had potential, and all the twists and turns in it might have had me loving it were it not for those issues. I'd have still been a bit disappointed with the abruptness of the ending though, since that was so sudden I had to double-check the book really was over. Clean up the language, don't let being shifters be an excuse for encounters that even the characters themselves agreed would be frowned upon by most people, give the character the street smarts she should have aquired during recent years (even if she hadn't before) and give us an ending that's not so abrupt, and this book could be a five star read.

As for what I've been watching:

I've got no movie or TV show reviews for you this week. In fact, I didn't watch a single DVD this week. Nor did I watch anything on TV - new to me or otherwise. At least, not unless you count snatches of TV shows caught while doing other things that had me in and out of the living room, which I don't.

Wednesday, January 23, 2019

#WriterWednesday - January 23rd 2019

There are dark (and not so dark) parts of writing no one ever sees. We writers don't talk much about them for whatever reason. But they exist. So, maybe we should talk about them more? What do you think?

Anyway, if you can't write consistently, here's how to fix that. Reward systems aren't just for kids, you know. *wink*

Remember: the only one holding you back is you.

Do you write for children? Are you looking for story ideas? How about tapping in to your childhood... With a twist, does that inspire you enough? I'll be very surprised if it doesn't.

Whatever age you write for, if you're a writer who writes in the fantasy genre, you may like to take a look at this list of fantasy sub-genres, to help you get your book listed right when you're publishing it.

Regardless of what kinds of stories you write, do your characters speak with different accents? Then take a look at this post on how to convey accents in fiction writing.

Next, here are some tips on ways to build suspense in your novel.

So, here's why you'll never write everything you want to write, and why that's OK.

But, what do you do when a story is tough to tell? You find a way to tell it anyhow, because that's the thing with stories: they need to be told, so they can be shared, maybe touch a few hearts, and make the world a better place.

With that in mind, it's only natural that now you've written your book, you want people to read it. Some people price their books... Or some of their books... Free to encourage this. But, the big question is: should you really offer your book for free? That's totally up to you. Personally, I do have one book that's permafree, which - if you don't know, but are interested - is "Frank The Friendly Ogre" (available from Smashwords, Amazon, iBooks, and some other eBook retailers).

No matter how much you price your books for on most retailers, if you're looking for another platform to potentially get a few extra sales, you might consider publishing book bundles with Bundle Rabbit. I don't use it myself, but I've heard good things about it, and it's an option, if you're interested.

So... What is your dream, and how will you make it come true?

Tuesday, January 22, 2019

Buzzers, Weather, #Crafting, Twisted Ankles, And #Hygge Days

They did come back about the buzzer thingy, but it's still not working properly. The repair guys need to access the downstairs place to fix whatever's wrong with that buzzer first, which is a problem for some reason. We don't know details, only that this is the reason for the delay. We can't ask the new downstairs neighbour either, because we haven't seen or heard him. If he's been around, we keep missing him. Anyway, the point is, we're still dealing with a broken buzzer thingy, and not entirely certain when that will stop being the case. Soon though, hopefully. Maybe this week? I won't hold my breath, but I will cross my fingers.

It's not weather issues stopping them from coming though. I mean, the weather reports said we might have snow Friday or Saturday, so that might have been an issue. We didn't though, so it wasn't. It got real cold... It's been around the freezing mark all week... But we didn't get any snow. They got some further North, and some places further West got some too. But not here. Figures. Oh well, that's the price I pay for living near the sea, and I mostly think it's worth it. Anyway, Winter's not over yet, so there's still time. I just hope it comes in the next two weeks, or waits until towards the end of March (which has happened in the past). I don't want to miss out on playing in it, after all.

In other news...

I've almost finished the Autumn themed table runner. Just got the last bit of sewing to do to secure the backing piece, and then I'll be done. I'm hoping to be able to finish it in time to post pictures next week.

With how close to being done the runner is, I might have been finished with it already. I'd actually planned to finish it this past weekend. But we spent the weekend doing some stuff around here we'd been putting off, but wanted to do before I went in to hospital. Of course, me being me, it couldn't all get done without incident, and I managed to twist my ankle. Actually, from the pain, and fact it's still hurting so much, I think I might have sprained it. I'd guess, based on past experiences, that it's just a light sprain. But it's my bad ankle, so that does randomly happen sometimes. It will get better. It always does. At least it will get a nice rest when I'm having to take it easy while dealing with the surgery and recovery, which I'll be doing before you know it... It's only just over two weeks until my surgery date now.

Anyhow, other than that, and playing with Lilie - and Joshua and the chinchillas too, of course - I haven't really done anything else. In fact, I've had a couple of days where I pretty much spent the whole day just playing with the furries, because that's what I felt like doing at the time. It felt great to do it too. It may not have been very productive, but they were very hygge days, and the furkids and I enjoyed them, which is what matters most.

Monday, January 21, 2019

#MondayMotivation, #Inspiration, And #Wisdom - #Quotes For January 21st 2019

Beauty is so quietly woven through our ordinary days that we hardly notice it.
~John O'Donohue

A man’s first care should be to avoid the reproaches of his own heart.
~Joseph Addison

If you develop a pure and sincere motivation, if you are motivated by a wish to help on the basis of kindness, compassion, and respect, then you can carry on any kind of work, in any field, and function more effectively.
~Dalai Lama

Things turn out best for people who make the best out of the way things turn out.
~John Wooden

Be a true representative of the goodness in your heart, and don't expect it to be easy or even noticed.
~Adyashanti

Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.
~Mahatma Gandhi

Every situation in life is temporary. So, when life is good, make sure you enjoy and receive it fully. And when life is not good, remember that it will not last forever and better days are on the way.
~Jenni Young

Friday, January 18, 2019

#FurkidFriday: Maizie The #Chinchilla Celebrates Her Third Birthday

Hi everyone. This is Maizie the chinchilla.

I had one of those birthday things on Sunday. I'm three years old now, just like Mollie.

The human caretakers got me and Mollie a new bowl as my birthday present, and filled it with some of my most favourite nibbles when they gave it to us. There's some of our actual food in there, along with Cheerios, oatmeal, raisins, and dandelion roots.

Here's a photo of me enjoying my birthday nibbles from my new purple bowl:


I don't mind that my birthday present is something for both me and Mollie to share. We share everything anyhow. Besides, I got first pick of the nibbles in it, which I'm happy about. Plus, we did need a new bowl.

So, that was how I celebrated turning three. With a new bowl, and some of my favourite nibbles. It was a nice way to celebrate my third birthday. At least, I think so.

I love these birthday things!

Squeak soon,
Maizie

Thursday, January 17, 2019

#AmReading + #AmWatching - January 17th 2019 #Reviews

It's time to take a look at what I've been reading and watching during the past week.

If you want to know more about the book, or the author, click on whichever it is you want to learn more about, and it will take you to the appropriate page on Goodreads. Clicking on my rating should take you to my actual Goodreads review for the book in question. Please bear in mind that the format I've reviewed on Goodreads may not be the format I actually read.

Alternatively, if it's a movie or TV show you want to know more about, just click on the title to go to a page where you can find out more details about the movie or TV show in question; the title links will usually take you to a page on IMDB.

Don't forget: I read and watch things across multiple genres, as well as for different age ranges, so you should always check before reading or viewing, to make certain something is suitable for the intended audience, especially when children are involved.

OK...

Here's what I read this week:

The Calling (Mae Martin Mysteries #1)The Calling by Amber Foxx
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
This was an excellent and well-written book, with a fantastic cast of characters. There was less mystery than one might expect to find in the first book of a series where the word "mystery" actually appears in the series name, which is why I hesitate to give it the full five stars. Still, it was an enjoyable read, and I look forward to continuing the series. Perhaps, as I continue the series, the mystery of the presence of the word "mystery" in the series name will be revealed?

Shaman's Blues (Mae Martin Mysteries #2)Shaman's Blues by Amber Foxx
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
Having enjoyed book one, I was eager to read this book. I was not disappointed. In fact, this second book in the series is even better than the first, since it actually involves more of the mystery aspect the series title led me to expect.

As for what I've been watching:

I managed to watch two DVDs this week. I watched the final disk of season seven of NCIS. I also watched the "Incredibles 2" movie. Since it was a new to me movie, I've reviewed it below.

Incredibles 2 (2018 movie):
This was a really great movie. It's action-packed, often entertaining, and also contains some touching scenes. If you enjoyed the first movie, you'll enjoy this one too. I give this movie five out of five stars.

Wednesday, January 16, 2019

#WriterWednesday - January 16th 2019

Are you planning to self-publish a book in 2019? If yes, you might be interested in reading this series of posts by a fellow self-published author. She starts you off with the basics, and then tells you a bit more about guidelines for if you decide to publish with KDP, as well as the basics for if you want to publish with Smashwords. She also talks a little about marketing.

Oh, and here's another author's step-by-step guide to publishing a book on KDP.

Of course, before you worry about publishing, you have to write that book, which is sometimes difficult to find time to do. Take it from someone who happens to be struggling with that exact issue at the moment (which I've talked about before, so I won't go in to details of again). If that's the case for you too, check out this advice on how to write when you're busy and stressed, and everything is chaos, because there's always something in your way. Remember: if whatever writing schedule you set doesn't work, just admit you failed - then start over.

Don't forget you need to take care of your physical health while writing. Especially if you're a full time writer, or someone else who spends a lot of time sitting down (whether because of writing or not). So, here are some ways to keep yourself moving throughout the day.

Now let's talk about the actual writing of your story. In fact, let's discuss the writing of scenes. Or, perhaps, I'll just let you read this post containing questions to consider when writing a scene. Yes, that will be easier.

By the way, if what you're writing is the kind of story where your character needs to find various items to complete their quest, you might want to read these tips to working with a collecting quest story.

Do you write poetry? Or, perhaps, you'd like to? Then check out this list of poetic forms.

Thinking of writing a series? Jemima Pett shares the things she learned while writing hers, which you can use as tips for writing your own.

Whatever you write, don't forget to back up your writing!

Oh, and here's a writers' guide to boats and ships, and a writers' guide to martial arts, which are part of the writers' guide series and may be of use to you. Or, if they aren't, some of the other posts in the series might be.

Finally, always remember: just start the thing - even if you're not sure you'll keep doing it.

Tuesday, January 15, 2019

Weather Reports, Medical Mutterings, And #Crafting Kits

Other than not being particularly warm, the weather has been all over the place. We've had clear sunny days, and cloudy days. Wet days and dry days. Stormy days, and mild days. Still no snow though. It's been cold all the time, even on the sunny days. But obviously things haven't been quite right for snow. Rain, like I said. Even hail. Oh, and a bit of ice and fog too. But not snow. Although, they say we'll get some soon... Maybe this week. I hope so. More than anything though, I hope our snow doesn't come while I'm in hospital, or right after I'm home, when I'm not going to be able to run downstairs to play with it. That would be incredibly annoying.

Speaking of annoying things: I started getting all sniffly, like I was getting a cold, just before the Winter Solstice. I took strong cold and flu medication, and got rid of it quickly. But then I got a dry cough just as we were heading in to the new year. So I took strong stuff for that too. I usually give a few days to let my body try and fight it, and then use natural remedies first, avoiding anything stronger unless I really can't shake it. But I couldn't risk it lingering with my surgery coming up, so I hit it hard with the strongest stuff we could get over the counter. Either I wasn't going to get much anyhow, or it worked, because I'm fine now.

Another annoying thing that happened concerns my surgery date. my surgery was rescheduled. I got a call about it in the middle of the holidays. It's now two weeks later. I'll be going in on February 7th instead. That means, instead of being in nine days time, my surgery is now in a little over three weeks. At least that's still soon. It's kind of frustrating though.

One comforting thought though is that they should have a note on my file saying they can't reschedule again, because I pointed out to them that my not being able to have January's shot - which I'm not allowed to have, because it would be too close to my surgery date (there's meant to be four or more weeks between the last shot and the surgery) - means there's a risk of the shot wearing off enough for the bleeding issue to start again, which risks me being back to ending up back in hospital because of needing blood transfusions, which - as I pointed out - wouldn't be a good thing. In theory, the surgery date is still close enough to the last shot that this won't happen, but if they delayed it again... Well, I think you get the point.

On the subject of my bloods: they had no trouble taking blood for the blood test in mid December. Also, as we thought would be the case, the fact the shots are doing their thing makes a huge difference, since I learned when I went in for my pre-op assessment five days later that my levels were actually up above the normal range now. The iron tablets, combined with the lack of blood loss, have meant my HB levels were at 16.3 or 163. I was told to continue taking the iron tablets for now, but this means I shouldn't need to continue doing so after surgery, and they now have clear evidence that I was right about what the problem was, in case what happened in August wasn't enough evidence for them. Hopefully my levels being above normal, and the continuation of the iron tablets to keep them that way, will help me avoid problems in those couple of extra weeks, when the shot could start wearing off.

Anyway, everything went relatively smoothly for the pre-op assessment, apart from my veins being reluctant to give up any blood. Apparently, my veins said five days wasn't enough of a break. But, as it turned out, since they already know my blood type from my hospital visits earlier in the year, and before that, and I'd had the test the week before because of checking my iron anyhow, it didn't actually matter, so they stopped trying after only one failed attempt. I'm definitely not complaining about that, as I'm sure you can imagine.

My blood pressure was up a little on the day of my pre-op assessment. But it wasn't too high, and considering both me and the nurse were getting frustrated with the machine - which took four attempts to be persuaded to give a reading - I think it was fine. The nurse seemed to agree.

They weighed me while I was there, but didn't complain about my lack of success in the weight loss area either, which was nice. I think the clear evidence of the issues being caused by the bleeding, and the fact I've now had so many of these shots, has temporarily stopped their arguments. Of course, I'll probably get a post-op lecture about how I should get weight off after I've had my recovery time. But I already want to do that anyhow, so whatever. Not that I plan to start going on an actual diet, or heading out to the gym. But I wouldn't mind losing some weight, and plan to try and get out more, and continue being more sensible with my food choices.

Oh, if you're wondering: I was exactly the same weight as I had been a little over two weeks before, when I'd gone for my end of November shot. I didn't bother getting them to weigh me when I went for the last shot at the end of December, since I'd only been weighed 10 days before, and they'll want to weigh me again on the day of surgery anyhow. Plus, it was a couple of days after Christmas, and who wants to be weighed that close to Christmas? Not me, that's for sure!

So, I had my final shot on December 28th. It would have been due again on January 25th. But, as I mentioned above, I'm not allowed to have that one, because it's too close to my surgery date. It would have worked out perfectly, since it would have been due right as I was having the surgery, but them rescheduling means I'll have a couple of weeks between when it would have been due, and when I go in for surgery. I'm crossing my fingers that's not enough time for the bleeding to start back up again. Hopefully it wears off as slowly as it originally kicked in, since that took a couple of months to happen, which would give time for me to have the surgery before it wears off, by which time it would be too late for it to make the bleeding start up. I really hope that's how it works out!

So... Now I'm all set for surgery on February 7th. Even have some special drink stuff they've started giving out before surgery to make sure patients have all the vitamins and things they need to get the best chance of recovery. I have to admit, I'm not looking forward to tasting it. The nurse commented on how, "People have found putting it in the fridge improves the flavour," which makes me suspect the flavour is bad enough to need that improvement. I've put it in the fridge, so it will be nicely chilled for when I need to be drinking it. But, as I said, I'm not looking forward to doing so.

I'm glad nasty neighbour isn't here any more, since I need to be having my breakfast about 7:00am on surgery day. If I haven't had it by 7:30am, I'll have to go without until after surgery. That idea doesn't appeal to me, so I'm glad I'll be able to get up and have breakfast early, and that the neighbours we have now are nice enough that they'll understand.

By the way... Just so you know: because of our stairs I can almost certainly expect to be in hospital at least close to a week, since they won't want me doing all those stairs too soon after surgery. The nurse told me that straight during the assessment. I'd suspected as much though.

In fact, I'd already started planning posts to go up while I'm probably stuck in hospital. Posts I then rescheduled when I got the new surgery date. Yes, I'll have my Kindle with me, so there will be reviews when I'm home and up for sorting them. But I've scheduled some posts for while I know I'll be in hospital, while I might be in hospital, and when I should be home but want to give myself a few days before needing to worry about blog posts too much. This essentially adds up to about two and a half weeks of posts. I've actually scheduled posts for all my posting slots - that's all days except Saturdays and Sundays - from February 8th through to February 25th. I should be home long before that... In theory I'll be home by Valentine's Day, possibly sooner... But it gives me time to take at least a few days before needing to worry about sorting posts. If something happens that I'm not... Well, you'll have to do without posts until I am. Except the Monday ones, which I actually have scheduled right up until early April.

Honestly, I didn't have much to do to get those couple of weeks fully filled. The days were mostly already filled, between my getting tag-happy, setting up the quote posts, and doing the fun themed thing I've got going on for the Friday posts. I won't be sharing any of the posts that go up while I'm in hospital across social media until I get home though. It's a lot of hastle trying to do it on my phone or Kindle, so I'm not even going to bother trying. But at least those who come directly to my blog looking for posts, or who have them delivered by eMail, will have posts to read during that time. I'll share them all on Twitter and Facebook when I'm home and able to do so. I'll catch up with comments then too. Of course, I won't be doing these things immediately after I get home. Hence giving myself those extra days.

I know people understand if I can't be here to do posts. But it matters to me, and makes me feel better to have tried.

So, what is this Friday feature I keep mentioning?

Lilie and Joshua are both inviting some online furry friends over for a visit to the blog. Spacifically, they're inviting the furry family members of some writers I know over for a bit of a chat.

I originally started it as just something fun to fill the Fridays I needed to schedule ahead of time. In fact, still expecting to be doing that, I rescheduled the original person's post when my surgery date got moved. But I was having so much fun doing it, and everyone I invited to participate was happy to accept my invitation, so I'm going to be making it a regular feature. From the end of January through all of February, it's happening every week, so I can focus on dealing with medical stuff. After that I'll be making it a monthly thing, so I can do it in between my regular Friday posts.

In other news...

Our stockings and holiday decorations are now all packed away until the end of the year. I even have the sugarplum fantasies scented candle to enjoy again next Solstice and Christmas, since I didn't end up lighting it for long this time around, so have packed it away with the other decorations. I took advantage of Kelly taking Lilie to the groomer on January 3rd for her claws to be trimmed - she doesn't file them down properly, even though she does walk a lot on hard surfaces... That happens a lot with little dogs - to put them away without "help" from her. Kelly and Lilie weren't gone as long as expected, but I was literally putting the last one away when they got home, so that worked out well.

On the subject of decorative things: my December Makerly box arrived in mid December. It contained a couple of kits. One is a calender, and there are a couple of other kits in the box. It actually arrived in time that I could have mentioned it the Tuesday before Christmas, but Makerly likes to keep their box contents secret until at least most of them should have arrived with people, so I waited to mention it on my blog, so they could make their own online announcements of its contents first, and then was busy posting holiday and goal posts. Not that many - if any - of the other subscribers would have seen it mentioned in my post, but whatever. Unfortunately, waiting this long means I now can't remember everything that was in the box, and I can't be bothered to go look. Anyway, despite having a couple of kits I still haven't done yet, I'm already looking forward to finding out what will be in January's box when it arrives, which it should do soon... It should arrive the end of this week, or early next week at the latest.

I didn't get to look forward to January's SewMine box though, since the SewMine box is no longer going to be coming. I got an eMail from them towards the end of December saying they wouldn't be doing them after December. Something about a change of circumstances. That's the box the table runner and Christmas mouse kits came from. They were nice little kits, so I think it's a shame. It can't be helped though. I've got a couple of the kits I already had from them to do yet, since I haven't had time to do the owl from November, or the kits that came in December's box. But still. I was going to try and see if any of their old kits were still available, and buy some of them with some of my Christmas money, but their website doesn't even seem to be available any more, so I guess that's not an option. Oh, well. At least I have the kits I got before they closed, and I still have my Makerly and Harry Potter boxes to look forward to.

So, that's about all there is to say about what's been going on around here, except for the fact we have someone coming to fix the buzzer thingy... You know? The intercom buzzer phone thing for knowing people are at the main door, and letting them in? Yeah.. That one. Hopefully someone will come to fix it this week (assuming the repair guy doesn't have anything more urgent come up, and bad weather doesn't stop him getting back for any reason). It's broken again. Actually, it's not worked right since nasty neighbour left. I think her putting something to hold her buzzer's button down - which she then left on her buzzer when she left, forcing us to put up with the buzzers playing up until someone could get in to her place to release her buzzer's button - damaged it. Like I said, it's been playing up since then. It's gotten gradually worse, and now we have to all go to the main door to let people in if they try to buzz (and can't even tell them we're on our way, since the speakers aren't working properly either). Hopefully it will be fixed soon, and will stay fixed with her gone. Anyway, they came to take a look at it yesterday (Monday) to see what they'd need to do to fix it, and are meant to be coming back to actually do so soon. I hope very soon. It would be nice to have that working again before I go in for surgery, since I'm not exactly going to be able to rush downstairs while recovering from that if Kelly's out and someone needs letting in. At least if it's working, I can let them in, and at most will only need to do the one flight of stairs to meet them at our apartment door (and can do that flight more slowly). In fact, if it's the postman, and if I don't have to sign for anything, I can just let him in the building, and tell him to leave the post downstairs for Kelly to grab on his way back up.

Since I don't have anything else to say, and this post has gotten kind of long anyhow, I'll let this do for today.

Monday, January 14, 2019

#MondayMotivation, #Inspiration, And #Wisdom - #Quotes For January 14th 2019

The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty.
~Winston Churchill

You will never find time for anything. If you want time you must make it.
~Charles Buxton

Stop inviting people who don't celebrate you to your party! It's YOUR life - you have the right to be exclusive.
~Mandy Hale

Study as if you were going to live forever; live as if you were going to die tomorrow.
~Maria Mitchell

Rivers know this: there is no hurry. We shall get there some day.
~A.A. Milne

Beauty is so quietly woven through our ordinary days that we hardly notice it.
~John O'Donohue

None of us suddenly becomes something overnight. The preparations have been in the making for a lifetime.
~Gail Godwin